Yes! Come in your best dressed! The dress code is semi-formal. A suite and tie for the men. For the ladies, We ask that you wear semi-formal attire such as a cocktail-length dress or dressy separates. Have fun with the color and pattern. We do ask that you choose a color other than white, dusty blue, and pale yellow as those colors will be reserved for the wedding party. Please note that the venue does not permit blue jeans.

The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated. We love your little ones to the moon and back, but due to space restrictions we cannot accommodate guests under the age of 18. The only exception to this rule will be the little ones in the wedding party.

We kindly ask that you keep our wedding "unplugged" and refrain from taking any photos or videos during the ceremony. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special day.

Both th ceremony and reception will be outdoors. Guests will walk to the garden on paved pathways, but will need to step on grass briefly to take their seats. For that reason, stiletto or otherwise-thin heels are not recommended. With that said, once the sun goes down and starts to get cooler, there will be heaters placed around the reception area. For those that want to escape the cold completely but still celebrate the happy couple, there will be a small indoor area.

We have reserved a room block at [hotel name]. Please book your stay by [insert cut off date] to guarantee a room in our block. Use the code [insert code] or mention the [your last name and your partner's last name] wedding while booking to receive our reduced rate.

We will not be providing guest transportation throughout the wedding weekend. Only for the day of the wedding.

If you miss the deadline to reserve a room in our block, reach out to the hotel and mention our wedding anyway—they may be able to accommodate you with our discount in a room outside of our block. If not, you can find additional nearby accommodations on our travel page.

We plan on having an entree choices that accommodate guests with dietary restrictions. However, please reach out to the bride or groom with you specific dietary restrictions so we may let the venue team know in advance.

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 117 Hawkins St, Oceanside, CA 92058. A wedding card box will be at our reception.You can also find our complete wedding registry here on our website (and purchase directly from our wish list) under the "Registry" tab.